Adored Self Study Course

It's time to STOP settling for "good enough" in your relationship.

What if your man made you feel truly adored, supported and desired?

What if you could stop the arguing and apathy… and start the laughter, deep conversation and appreciation

What if the fire, fun, and flirting didn’t have to fade?

Hey Beautiful, I'm Justine!

Years ago, before helping thousands of ambitious women reawaken the passion, adoration and love in their men, my relationships lacked something huge.

Again and again, I found myself being the perfect girlfriend, taking care of everything, organizing everything, all while kicking ass in my own career. Yet reliably, I wasn’t getting back what I was putting out.

I craved a partner that brought the same level of motivation to our relationship that I did, who matched my commitment to personal growth, who matched my ambition.

But those relationships, despite their positives, left me with a nagging fear in the back of my mind:

“Is this REALLY…..... it?"

"Is this REALLY what a dream love looks like?"

"Is this REALLY what I’m willing to accept for the rest of my life?”

How many of us feel this way about our relationships?

The people change, but the story stays the same. We occasionally meet couples who look at each other… differently. Where years in, their eyes are full of stars, their conversations are deep and full of laughter, love and gratitude radiate from them.

It starts with butterflies and waves of excitement, but shifts quickly to routines, expectations and we're left feeling frustrated... bored.

Like we are invisible, our partners aren’t listening to us or engaging in deeper conversations.
Like we’ve turned into roommates, not soulmates.
Like there was no space for our emotions, and when they’re expressed, he becomes defensive.
Like sex is something to tick off (when it rarely happens), and flirting and foreplay are long gone.
Like we are responsible for doing and planning EVERYTHING.

Trust me, I’ve been there. MOST of us have.

We don’t WANT to fall into relationships that feel so “meh”, yet we can’t seem to escape it.

We want to keep believing that magical, safe, transcendent relationships do exist, so when that fire burns out, we don’t just roll over and accept it.

We’re ambitious, driven women, doers, we give it our all to make it work.

Let me guess, you've tried....

Giving him reminders and bringing his attention to what he could do better, but that didn’t work.
Planning couple activities, joint gym sessions, reading the same book, attending seminars together, only to see the habit die off within weeks, if it even starts.
Getting really upset, which works excellently, for perhaps two weeks.
And after it all, some small part of you gives up hope, you begin to accept that this is just what reality looks like....

I need you to stop that thought, IMMEDIATELY.

You CAN have the closeness, the intimacy, and the connection you’ve been longing for.

I want you to remember how it felt when you first fell in love. The passionate conversations that stretched late into the night, the exciting flirtation, the heart-pounding anticipation of seeing him after a long day at work... Where did all that go?

I see you fighting hard not to slip into indifference, struggling to keep the passion alive amidst conversations that have been reduced to discussing groceries or weekend chores. You want so desperately to feel that deep, burning connection again, but it feels like you are slipping away from each other, day by day.

Like you, I've always been a driven woman. Growing up with three brothers, I learned early on to be assertive and competitive. I’m the kind of woman that gets things done and makes things happen. (sometimes, it felt like nothing would have gotten done without me!)

My romantic relationships were short, I just couldn’t meet a man that could keep up.

I longed for a love that set my heart on fire, one that would fill me with warmth and satisfaction, one where I’d feel cared for and adored.

It wasn’t until my mid-twenties that I finally met a man who intrigued me, inspired me, and challenged me.

I thought we were perfect.

UNTIL MY WAKE-UP CALL.

My very masculine man revealed to me how my "doing" made him feel constantly mothered, controlled, and emasculated.

I thought I was the ideal woman, the perfect partner, but my assertiveness was pushing him away. I cooked, I cleaned, I managed our social calendar, I structured our business, and much more. I was so busy managing our life and relationship, that I wasn’t present for it, nor connected.

Be Your Man's Lover,

Not His Mother...

“I don’t want you to be my maid or cook. Nor do I want you to be my secretary. I want you to be my partner!”

I thought I was nurturing him, but really I was mothering him.

Even worse, I was unknowingly training him to let me handle everything, when I really longed for a partner who took initiative and supported me.

Shocked, a profound thought struck me:

What if, by Simply Adjusting How You Act, You Can Draw the Man of Your Dreams, Out of the Man You Already Have....?

I threw myself into studying everything I could find about relationships. I immersed myself in attachment styles, masculine and feminine dynamics, every realm and flavor of psychology. I interviewed as many men as I could to understand their view of their relationships. I sought out experts of all flavors to coach me.

As my understanding of scientific and esoteric, modern and ancient, western and eastern concepts and connections grew, I uncovered something that left me speechless.

It was SO simple.

I went from struggling with self worth and communication issues in my relationship to feeling seen and heard, smoothly navigating difficult conversations, and my relationship is better than ever.

Fanny Larson

"When I met Justine, I was in a challenging space both within myself and in my relationship. I was struggling with not feeling good enough and we were fighting a lot. After the first week, things already started to shift in my relationship.

Justine far exceeded my expectations. She offers very practical information that is easy to apply to my daily life. I learned how I was unknowingly blaming and criticizing my partner and putting him on the defense, even though I thought I was approaching our conversations in a conscious way. With the skills I have learned, we now have much more harmony in our conversations, including the difficult ones and we both feel heard.

Our relationship has changed drastically and the biggest shift came from me. I went in thinking I was going to learn about my man and I ended up learning so much about myself along the way. Justine said it only takes one person to change the relationship for the better, and she is absolutely right.

Justine will help you to be a better version of yourself and have a better relationship. I am more calm now, I take better care of myself, and my relationship is better than it has ever been."

The state of your relationship is NOT because of something inherently wrong with YOU (or your partner)

Relationship problems stem from a misunderstanding of our differences - men and women both process emotions VERY differently.

In my 15+ years helping couples save and beautifully evolve their relationships, I’ve come to see that most relationships are just like yours. People go through the motions, sliding into complacency, telling themselves that they’re just hanging on until the kids get older. But trust me, you don't want to cross your fingers and hope that you'll magically find deep passion for each other again after years of co-running a household.

I have a very simple fact to share with you. You DON’T have to wait. You DON’T have to settle.

If you learn to understand and embrace your feminine energy, you can change your relationship TODAY.

You can feel adored again.

Embracing your feminine does NOT mean giving away your power, compromising your dreams, or being weak.

I am still my strong, ambitious self, have a successful and thriving business, AND I learned how to feel supported, seen, and turned-on in my relationship.

The truth is, sometimes, our strengths can become our biggest roadblocks. But understanding the balance between being a strong woman and being in a fulfilling relationship is where the magic happens.

The most fascinating part is exactly HOW embracing your feminine shows up in your life:

When you’re stressed about a conflict with a work colleague, a family member or a friend.

What you want from your man: To feel heard and supported.
How he actually responds: Goes into problem solving, tells you ‘It’s not a big deal’, and judges you as overly sensitive.
How he acts when you embody your feminine: He listens intently, validates your feelings, and makes you feel truly seen.

When he’s stressed about a problem in his life.

What you want from your man: For him to connect with you by opening up about his problems.
How he actually responds: Withdrawn, snappy, disconnected, unavailable.
How he acts when you embody your feminine: He stays connected and communicative, and shares with you what’s going on for him.

When you want to connect intimately with him.

What you want from your man: To actually feel connected with him before making love.
How he actually responds: Doesn’t talk to you all day and then assumes you’d love to just jump into bed with him. He rushes without properly preparing your body.
How he acts when you embody your feminine: He’s motivated to romance you by setting the mood, initiating emotional conversation, massage, or however else you enjoy being turned on, before moving to sex.

When you want him to take equal responsibility for the house you both share.

What you want from your man: For him to take initiative with plans and household chores, without you having to redo everything he does, instead of assuming you just love organizing both of your lives.
How he actually responds: Doesn’t take the lead on things that need to get done. Waits until you make a request of him. Doesn’t always follow through so you have to continue to nag him about it.
How he acts when you embody your feminine: He goes above and beyond to make your life easy, to make you feel appreciated, loved and supported.

Here’s the BIG secret.

Your partner WANTS you to feel adored, he WANTS you to feel cared for, he WANTS you to brag to your friends about him.

It’s in his very biology.

The secret to motivating him to make that change, is simply understanding how to communicate this to him in a way that his masculine mind appreciates.

INTRODUCING...

A self-study journey to bring passion, love, and support roaring back to your newly extraordinary relationship … no matter how bad things seem.

If you’ve dreamed of:

Waking up with your partner’s arms wrapped around you and feeling that deep connection as you tag team getting the kids off to school, stealing a long kiss and a smack on the ass as he hands you the breakfast he just made for you.
You kiss each other goodbye for the day and head off to work full of energy.
You’re killing it in your meetings and you get word that you are about to be promoted again.
Your colleague asks what products you use because they want the secret to how you are able to do so much and look so radiant.
Only it’s got nothing to do with your skincare and it’s got everything to do with the afterglow of this mornings’ love making.
Later on in the day, you receive a naughty text from your partner that has you smiling so big your colleague perks up with curiosity wondering what message just came through.
You get home a bit late from work and he has a glass of wine waiting for you, and you join him in making dinner and sharing about your day, while the kids are there at the table doing their homework.
You’ve been together for years but you still melt when he grabs your hips and love the way your body feels in his hands.

Then it’s time to make a change.

You have the ability to completely shift your relationship dynamic and heal old patterns and wounds along the way.

I’ve had countless women come to me over the last 15 years who were literally about to file for a divorce before discovering Adored.

After a couple of weeks of working together, they not only wanted to stay with their husbands, they also saw what a great catch they had.

They went from thinking their relationship was doomed, to having a relationship that was the envy of their friends, constantly being asked how they did it.

I want this to be you.

It doesn’t matter how bad it is or how far along in your relationship you are.

You CAN bring back the magic.

You don’t have to accept your relationship as it is. I’m going to take your hand and show you EXACTLY how to:

Shift the mistakes you’re unknowingly making right now, so your man can easily give you what you want and need.
Understand how your man functions differently so that you are able to reach him and ignite him, instead of trigger him.
Learn how to bring clarity to what your needs are and express them in a way that your man can understand, receive, and respond to in the way that you want.
Reawaken his love, adoration, and appreciation for you.

I’m sure you’ve read a few books on relationships, watched some Youtube videos or listened to some podcasts. Perhaps you’ve even dragged your partner to couples counseling, desperately trying to save what feels like a sinking ship.

And yet - here you are - still not in the relationship you long for, still not feeling the magic you deserve, still clinging to the hope that this is even possible.

The heart-pounding, deeply connected, adoring relationship you dream of is not only possible, I’m CERTAIN that I can show you how to create it.

Adored is so much deeper than just relationship advice. This program cracks open the deepest biological programming that leads men and women to respond in different ways.

Unlike other surface level content, I’ve spent 15+ years working with THOUSANDS of clients of all backgrounds and relationship styles.

I won’t be teaching some sort of mind-game you can use in order to trick your partner into doing what you want. Instead, I’ll show you how to make small, simple changes yourself that will make your partner not only want to fulfill your needs, he will feel a deep, biological reward for doing so.

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I will give you a WARNING though, this program certainly isn’t for everyone.

Adored is NOT for you if...

You are willing to settle for a mediocre relationship.
If you want to keep doing the same things and only hope you get a different outcome.
You are not ready to give up blaming him.
You want to remain helpless and hopeless around having the quality of relationship you want.
You aren’t willing to look at yourself and what you can do differently.

Adored IS for you if...

You want to learn how to communicate in a way that your man will actually understand and receive what you are saying.
Take your power back and look at what you can do differently to create the change you want in your relationship.
Are willing to discover healthier ways of processing and communicating your frustrations and resentments.
You are willing to invest at least 1-2 hours per week to radically transform your relationship.
You’ve tried lots all of approaches to fix your relationships, but change still hasn’t happened.

Adored brought the spark back to my 10 year relationship. I signed up for Adored with the hope to freshen things up in my relationship, as depth and passion had gotten lost along the way. Now we’re more in love than ever.

Vidya Sofia

"When I started Adored, I was in a challenging space both within myself and in my relationship. I was struggling with not feeling good enough and we were fighting a lot. After the first week of Adored, things already started to shift in my relationship.

Adored far exceeded my expectations. It offers very practical information that is easy to apply to my daily life. I learned how I was unknowingly blaming and criticizing my partner and putting him on the defense, even though I thought I was approaching our conversations in a conscious way. With the skills I learned Adored, we now have much more harmony in our conversations, including the difficult ones and we both feel heard.

Our relationship has changed drastically and the biggest shift came from me. I went into thinking I was going to learn about my man and I ended up learning so much about myself along the way. Justine said it only takes one person to change the relationship for the better, and she is absolutely right.

Adored will help you to be a better version of yourself and have a better relationship. I am more calm now, I take better care of myself, and my relationship is better than it has ever been."

With the Adored program you’ll learn…

All of the most powerful techniques, knowledge-bombs and professional insights from over 15 years working with thousands of couples to save relationships (and often families) on the brink of collapse.

During the program you’ll receive over 9 hours of video lessons and masterclasses packed with wisdom, frameworks, scenarios, challenges and well tested tactics.

This is accompanied by full course material, including course papers and journal prompts for knowing and understanding yourself and your man better.

Finally, you get to join a community of strong, ambitious women just like you who are committed to showing up as their best selves and uplifting their man as they do so.

Here’s the course material breakdown:

MODULE 1:

Make Him Your King, Become His Queen

In the first module we dive straight into the deep stuff! Some of our good intentions actually have an emasculating effect on our men. In this module, you become aware of the ways you might be pushing your man away and shutting him down.

Discover what you do that stops your man from taking initiative.

Uncover hidden expectations that prevent him from giving you what you need.

Learn how you might be unknowingly preventing him from opening up.

Understand how to effectively communicate your needs with your man in a way that inspires him to want to fulfill them.

Understand the things that you do that might suggest to your man that he’s not good enough, thus causing him to withdraw and be more passive

BONUS: Fun Alternative To Nagging!

MODULE 2:

Entice Him Out of His Cave

In module 2 you learn about the biological differences between men and women. This is essential for understanding how the same situations can prompt different responses from you and your man.

My polarity technique to awaken his masculinity, creating attraction, connection and intimacy.

Understand how your actions alter the levels of his hormones, and how these move him into a more masculine or a more feminine state.

Discover how your own hormones affect how you handle stress, and how to adjust how your needs change during the different phases of your cycle.

How prioritizing your own needs can actually make you show up BETTER as a partner, mother, friend, boss, or employee.

Understand why your man pulls away at times and how to not let this effect your relationship.

BONUS: Learn how to get him to listen attentively and give you the kind of support you actually want and need when you’re emotional and stressed.

MODULE 3:

Creating Deeper Connection

In this module you learn how to improve the communication and intimacy in your relationship. With all of the insights that you learn in this module you will have the connection and depth that you’ve been longing for.

Insights and tools to help you deal with your frustrations and resentment around the quality of communication in your relationship.

Understand the differences between masculine and feminine sexuality and how to create deeper fulfillment for both of you.

Discover how to navigate your different ways and needs for connection.

Release the jealousy you feel when he looks at other women.

BONUS: What to do to stop feeling frustrated or disappointed after sex when he doesn’t want to cuddle

BONUS: Learn why his sex drive might be lower than yours, and what you can do about it.

MODULE 4:

Make Him Your Ally, Not Your Enemy

In this module, you learn how to navigate emotions and triggers in an effective way that brings about lasting healing and transformation. You will receive some of my most effective tools for processing your emotions and creating a more intimate and vulnerable connection with your partner.

Learn how to get your man to offer the kind of support that you actually want and need instead of going into problem solving.

Develop the skills to express your frustrations without making him defensive.
Learn how to minimize his tendency to go into explanation, justification and defense.

Get in touch with the various ways you give your power away and miss an opportunity for deeper healing and greater peace.

Discover how to inspire your man to show up as his best, most supportive, empathetic, and accountable self.

Gain the tools to process and heal your triggers so that they stop recurring.
Uncover childhood wounds so you can stop them playing out in your relationship
Learn a “Clearing Ritual” to regularly express appreciation, share accountability, and clear out any tensions that have built up in the relationship.
BONUS: How to process your feelings with others in a way that doesn’t increase negative feelings towards your man.

BONUS: Develop a deeper awareness of how to discern between your wounds, projections and perceptions so that you can feel more peace and connection in your relationship.

MODULE 5:

Call Forth His Protector and Provider

This module is all about receiving. Receiving is a part of your feminine essence, yet it’s something that many women have a hard time doing. This module will not only help you in your relationship, it will help you in all of your relationships and you will learn how to enjoy life more.

Stop deflecting compliments and learn to sincerely and comfortably take them in. Learn how to ask for help and receive it without feeling guilty or indebted

Uncover the core wounds that make receiving so uncomfortable and heal them so that you feel at ease confident to ask for help and receive it.

Uncover the ways that you block the very things that you want from your man.

Learn how to ask for what you want in a way that your man can easily understand and is inspired to give to you.

Discover a more effective way to express your needs so that you can stop leaving subtle hints that your man doesn’t pick up on.
Become aware of how your inability to receive can have a devastating effect on how your man feels in the relationship.

BONUS: Why your man sometimes acts self-centered, inconsiderate, or insensitive when emotional.

MODULE 6:

Surrender and Presence

Now that you have learned all of the things that you are doing that causes your man to shut down, pull away, get defensive, become more passive. This module goes into what you can do to call forth the best in your man. This module gives the keys to having a lasting, thriving, passionate relationship.

Learn the key thing that keeps the spark alive once the initial excitement of newness has faded.

Discover how to connect with your feminine essence, and use it to awaken his masculine presence, increasing his attraction, motivation and enjoyment of the relationship.
The Three A’s you can express to your man to supercharge him with masculine, capable initiative, and drive.

Discover the most meaningful ways to make your man feel loved and trusted.

Help shift the way society is putting down and shaming boys and men and learn what you can do differently to inspire and support healthy masculinity.

BONUS MASTERCLASS: A full masterclass on how to get your man to take more initiative and provide the kind of care, love and support that allows you to relax, let go of control and soften.

Adored Bonuses

BONUS #1

Two Video Q:A Sessions

This is a unique opportunity to receive extra support and have your personal questions answered by me. At the end of week 3 and 6, I will collect your questions and respond with video answers. ($197 value)

BONUS #2

Interviews with Men

Hear what men want directly from them in my interviews where they intimately share their experiences in their present and past relationships. ($347 value)
To get a taste of one, click here.

BONUS #3

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

Get instant access to my online course, one of the most transformative tools for: releasing resentments and hurts from the past, how to take your power back and stop needing external validation, uncover what’s really going on under the surface, stop repeating patterns, and so much more. This tool can change every aspect of your life. ($97 value)

BONUS #4

Bonus Masterclasses

- Stop Blocking, Start Receiving Masterclass

- How to Manifest Your Ideal Relationship Masterclass
- Own Your "I Space," Find Your "We Space" Masterclass
- Anxious Attached Masterclass

($197 value)

I'm Ready for Adored

Adored Testimonials

"I struggled with my inner critic & self-sabotaging. Adored helped me access my confidence and power. I am now ready for a good relationship.

Before, I was always afraid of men because of the abuse of my past, and since Adored, I am open to their good intentions. I am open to their attention, their kindness, their strength, and their protective ways. I am ready for that relationship of my dreams."

Amy Couch

"Adored taught me how to take my power back. Prior, I lacked awareness, blamed my partner for how I felt, said hurtful things to my partner, and would leave men before they could leave me.

Learning about the differences between men and women brought so much understanding and acceptance and has healed my relationship to men. Adored set me free and I wish for all women to have these tools and this knowledge."

Nina Erculj

"I thought I understood men, then realized I didn’t. Adored opened my eyes to so much. Before, I had a series of long-term relationships where the same patterns, problems and arguments kept arising. Adored helped me to understand why that was happening and how to stop them from repeating.

I highly recommend Adored for all women. The teachings are incredible."

Nina Erculj

SELF-STUDY COURSE BEGINS NOVEMBER 6, 2023

Looking for Adored group coaching? To honor your commitment to joining Adored as a self-study program, I will credit 100% of your investment in this course to the next group coaching version if you choose to join.

Adored

Self Study Course

$888

or 3 monthly payments of $333

6 Powerful Self-Paced Modules, released week by week
9 hours of Video Lessons and Masterclasses
Course papers, practices, and guided meditations to support your journey
Bonus: 2 Q:A Sessions ($197 value)
Bonus: Interviews with Men ($347 value)
Bonus: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs Course ($97 value)
Bonus Masterclasses ($197 value)

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"I went from hating and avoiding my husband to having beyond what I ever thought was possible, in just a few months.

My relationship was a sham at best. I saw my husband as an enemy. I was fantasizing about being with other people. I wasn’t present and wasn’t a good wife.

Justine helped me to be more content, grounded, self-aware. And as a result, my husband shows up in the relationship in a different way, as a better and more enhanced version of himself. He is more grounded, happy and content and tells me more than once a week how he’s so impressed and proud with the work that I’ve done on myself. He says he’s never been more in love with me.

- Pamela

"I used to feel hopeless about my relationship, but then I learned all that I could do to change it. And now I have everything I ever wanted.

Prior to Adored, I used to have many frustrations, resentments, and annoyances towards my partner.

Now, we have more patience, understanding and acceptance towards each other. He has become more reliable, mindful, proactive and centered. I have become less controlling and more supportive. We are more loving towards each other. Our intimacy has improved.

What we share feels more like a partnership than it ever has and I love that we went on this journey together

- Jenny

Frequently Asked Qestions

My man isn’t into personal development, I am worried this isn’t going to do anything because it’s just me doing the work?

While your partner may not share your current interest in personal development, your commitment to growth can inspire positive change. I've seen partners join the journey after witnessing transformation. Investing in yourself benefits both you and the relationship. If your partner doesn't align, your growth will naturally draw in a relationship that does.

Is it worth the investment?

Adored is a transformative investment. Beyond enhancing your relationship, it influences all aspects of life. Women have shared how it has helped their work relations, heal their relationship with their father and men in general, improve the way they relate to their son, and much more. For the equivalent of my decades of $75,000 investments, you gain proven wisdom that has been boiled down to practical insights and tools. The track record of lasting transformation sets Adored apart.

Is Adored for singles also?

Yes, it’s great to attend if you are single. You will learn things in this course that will help you to clear the past, change old patterns, and have a great start in your next relationship. Many single women have reported benefiting greatly from it and it being the very source that helped them to call in a healthy relationship.

How long will I have access to the videos?

You have lifetime access to the videos. You will be able to return to the videos and all of the shares and coaching that is going to happen in that group. Most participants have gone back and reviewed all the lessons a 2nd and 3rd time.

How fast will I get results?

Many women reported witnessing changes in their man and their relationship in the first week. I have also heard the feedback directly from their men.

How fast will I get results?

Each model has around 1-2 hours of lecture content. You can go through the bonus material at your own place.

How is Adored different to other courses on market?

Adored stands out by offering a profound understanding backed by science, delving into the biology behind our actions and emotions. We explore hormones and brain structure for in-depth insights. The information is very practical and easy to apply in your daily life. To support your integration there are reflection points for every lesson.

Unlike other programs, Adored doesn't just provide skills to address relationship issues; it transforms relationships from their core, ensuring lasting change. Feedback from women who've explored books, courses, and podcasts reveals that Adored's unique presentation style goes beyond information absorption—it enables genuine integration into their lives.

Take action on creating the quality of relationship that you want now.

When your relationship is bad, it makes everything else in life harder. When it’s good, you feel like superwoman and can do it all. Stop wasting time waiting for your relationship to get better. Stop wasting time waiting for your relationship to get better and take action to create the quality of relationship that you want now.

It doesn’t matter how bad it is or how long you have been together, you have the ability to make things better. As you lean into what you can do to shift your relationship, you will learn so much about yourself. A lot of people get stuck on the surface and don’t dig deeper into what the problem really is.

Adored will show you the way.

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